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Are You Sick and Tired of the Constant Struggle, Pain, Embarrassment and Humiliation That Jealousy is Causing In Your Relationship and Life?

Is YOUR jealousy causing you to feel scared and afraid that your partner, spouse or lover is going to leave you for someone else and you'll end up alone?

Is Your partner's out-of-control jealousy and constant questions about where you've been, who you've been with and what you were doing-- driving you crazy?

If you're finally ready to say..."Stop the jealousy--I've had enough" then...

Get Ready To Learn The Simple Steps You
Need to Take To Stop The Jealousy Now--
BEFORE it Rips Your Relationship To Shreds...

We're relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and we're experts in helping people like you overcome jealousy.

• Learn to be happy with yourself and what you have, unless what you lack is due to oppression, and if that is the case, if you have the ability to stick up for yourself and cause changes that will benefit everyone in your situation, including yourself.
• Everyone is different, and each person has good and bad qualities. Realize that you have the potential to create a better future.
• Try to talk about your problems with someone. Perhaps you feel that these jealous tendencies are a private matter; then, you ought to anonymously ask an advice column or similar construct about your problem.
• Irrational jealousy usually stems from indoctrinated social values which do not favor people such as yourself. Both you and society may hold such values. Of course, its easier to challenge your own values than that of others, start here first. Often, American psychology purposely confuses the concept that one has low self-esteem when the truth is, external influences, such as the media, cause degraded and distorted social values, not internalized deficiencies. Self-esteem is a concept invented to blame the victim, when the reality is the victim is being punished for not towing the line to the wants which are constantly being spewed from things like popular media and traditional means of social control. Reject these glorified values and be yourself and be proud to be different.
• Realize that it is very often your own viewpoint is distorting reality. The grass is always greener and often the mind singles out a distorted piece of the whole which you want, but conveniently ignores negative aspects which come packaged with the positive. When you are jealous, you may think, "I want that; it would be nice to have that thing or experience for myself" However, people are different and the other person may be suffering unknowingly or in ways you cannot foresee or comprehend. Trade your anger for curiosity, try to get the bigger picture before making rash judgments.

O! beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on.
~William Shakespeare, Othello

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